i can't, which is why this is so hard. despite the ways in which i believe i was hard done by, i have nothing but abiding love
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bugsonglass said:i can't, which is why this is so hard. despite the ways in which i believe i was hard done by, i have nothing but abiding love
The after party can be more painful unless you gird your heart up. Nothing worse than being stuck in friend mode with everything you want, just out of reach.
true words of wisdom there. easier said than done for me at this point though i understand it's what will need to be done
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We need some man ass.
Will I do?
I was specifically thinking of you.
What the fuck people, Bugsy is hurt and all you guys say is that you feel sorry for him?! Bugsy has no need for that, he needs a solution.
Fear not my dear Greek buddy, the God of Justice has a solution to all your problems.
First you stalk here. Pay attention to all the guys she looks at. Then quickly eliminate each and every one of them. Keep doing this, do not miss a single guy. You might not know this, but women have urges too. So after she is really horny, she has no choice, but to come to you. She will beg for you. Look at here, put on an arrogant smirk....
and whisper No!. Be sure to not show any emotion during this. Now she will feel rejected. You shall have your revenge. Then fuck her mother.
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For real, Bugs unless you really do want her as just a friend just stop hanging out with her. It will never work out as long as you are friends. Leave her, do your own thing, if its meant to be she will come back looking for you.
Iga_Bobovic said:What the fuck people, Bugsy is hurt and all you guys say is that you feel sorry for him?! Bugsy has no need for that, he needs a solution.
Fear not my dear Greek buddy, the God of Justice has a solution to all your problems.
First you stalk here. Pay attention to all the guys she looks at. Then quickly eliminate each and every one of them. Keep doing this, do not miss a single guy. You might not know this, but women have urges too. So after she is really horny, she has no choice, but to come to you. She will beg for you. Look at here, put on an arrogant smirk....
and whisper No!. Be sure to not show any emotion during this. Now she will feel rejected. You shall have your revenge. Then fuck her mother.
Here is some advice Bugs, introduce her to Iga. After 5 minutes she will come crying to you.
Thanks, you guys are priceless. Between time-proven pearls of wisdom, psychotic revenge advice and man-ass, you cheer me up...
I'm smiling, though my heart is still bleeding.
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So today I agreed to meet, as friends, after a 10 day break from all communication. So we spent the day together, as friends. Went walking, had lunch, went walking some more, had a coffee, chilled and played backgammon ... as friends. And then we parted, as friends. The way I feel right now I might as well have picked off the scabs of my wounds with my nails and rubbed salt and alcohol in them.
I know i'm a pathetic idiot and it's all my fault for going along. But this is how desperate I am.
Please don't feel you have to reply. I realise i'm being a sad bastard and please don't feel you have to indulge me. You've all been extremely helpful and supportive and I appreciate it more than my words can say. It's my fault i'm not able to get over this and move on and i take full responsibility
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Welcome to the Friend zone.
It's is like the Phantom Zone in Superman, but in the Friend zone not even the mighty Zod can escape.
The How to Serve Man episode of The Twilight Zone would be quite apt; or at least the short story's angst that inspired it. 
Dvader said:^
For real, Bugs unless you really do want her as just a friend just stop hanging out with her. It will never work out as long as you are friends. Leave her, do your own thing, if its meant to be she will come back looking for you.
Yep. She's sending mixed messages for sure.
