I think passion in moderation is good, much like anything else. If you take it too seriously it can suck the fun out of something the way Steel sucks the manlove out of a wineglass.

I find when you relax, dont get too serious and just have fun...that's when the energy flows naturally and the best things happen.

phantom_leo said:

I agree with what you say, but I'm totally NOT into bears.

 That works on different levels.